Having a steady relationship means giving some things up, like your ego. You have to put it aside to make room for the things that actually matter in life and that you’d like to share with your partner.
The thing is that once you’ve gone some time alone, you are kinda used to not sharing some things with people, and you might not be able to differentiate between just a bunch of people you might like to call friends and your partner who is actually entitled to those things – if you wanna build a stable relationship, that is.
Many people are doing the same mistakes when in relationships and they don’t devote fully to their partners, which proves to be a really bad idea in the long run.
So here’s what you need to do if you want to maintain a stable relationship with your partner in which you don’t make him feel bad or unloved. Here we go:
1. Your Plans For The Future
Your partner is now part of your life, so he’s entitled to know what plans you have for the future. If you have completely different approaches to life and to the future, then how are you going to create that future together?
You have to include him in this and that’s just a must because now you’re no longer deciding on your faith, you’re deciding on the faith of your relationship and the faith of your partner too. Don’t be selfish.
2. Your Finances
This is something that every couple needs to discuss eventually – you need to figure out how you’re gonna go about finances because most couple when they step into a marriage, they fight because of money – and as dumb as it may sounds – you don’t want that to happen to you, do you? So sit down, talk to your partner and figure out whether you’re going to go about your own money or combine and pay for things, or anything else that works for you.
3. Your Personal Issues
You don’t stop being an individual just because you’re in a relationship now, so don’t act like you do. You have issues and your partner needs to know about them, even if they can’t help, they can give you support – and sometimes that’s all one needs.
4. What You Think Of Him
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